15 clear signs he want to marry you

 

15 clear signs he want to marry you


Once you are in a long term relationship, occasionally it gets difficult to decipher the subtle signs that a significant other is sending. If you think that your companion is entertaining the idea of marriage, look for these signs to hint you in.

Before scratching the question, let me throw back this very important question to you.

Why do you want to get married?

Is it because of the following?

1. Age

2. Societal pressure

3. Family pressure

4. Friends

5. Church

6. Fear of being mocked

Well, consider the first and only way to know will marry you is by:

Knowing

A lot of man do not marry women they love, they marry woman they need. A man just like every human have what is known as “wants” and “need” but we often go for the need cos it is the scale of preference. So you may be the girl he wants at the moment, but not the girl he needs as a wife.

Hence, is advisable for the young ladies to enjoy their relationship, it is what I tag as catch your cruise and do not be eager for marriage. You cannot know if a man wants to marry you because like I said earlier on, you can be what he wants not need.

Relationship

Relationship is a clear comparison of leaving in a rented apartment; marriage is like buying your house and owing it. What simply differentiates the duo is “commitment”. Some of you just want to own a man, but do not know what to do with him.

Relationship is when to know what to do with the man, is like browsing him to know what to do with him.

Readiness

When a man is ready, you do not need to force him to marry you. It is what you do in relationship that you do in marriage, the only difference between the duos is that one is certified and the other is not.

Wake-up

Ladies it is time to wake up. Many of you ladies, because you feel age is not on our side, you simply want to rush into marriage, some feel because the society will start asking me questions. When you are struggling your life daily, no one is concerned. Please ladies, be yourself and enjoy your relationship. No go do pass you. It is not the doggy style or your ability to wash a man’s clothes or cooking that will determine he will marry you. If that brother wants back off he will still do so.

Hence, I advice that you be yourself in your relationship.

Do not please him.

Do not kill yourself for him.

Do not put an expectation somewhere in the relationship thereby raising your hopes on high.

Develop values that would make the man have no choice other than to marry you. Spend more time in development of yourself in a relationship.

The following are the clear sign that your man will marry you

1. When he discuss future plans with you

2. When you are invited to every occasion

3. There is an increase in touch

4. He delights in your happiness

5. He entrusts you with his life

6. He helps you feel comfortable

7. He is punctual

8. He says it

9. He plans with you in mind

10. Family link

11. He wants to live together  

12. He does not run away during the trying period    

13. He misses you   

14. He only sees you

15. When he ask you about the names or number of kids you wish to have

  

1. When he discuss future plans with you

Guys do not bring up things that they really would rather not talk about. But when a man brings up future plans, it is an indication that he would like to know your opinion on them and your opinion does carry weight with him.

2. When you are invited to every occasion

You have become his plus one to all special events and family breaks. This means that he sees you playing a huge part in the big picture of his life. He wants to introduce you to his family and make you feel like you are a part of it.

3. There is an increase in touch

It will almost feel like when you first started courting. Your man will be way touchy-freely, touching your arm while you are cooking or taking the time to message your neck while you area working

4. He delights in your happiness

If a guy goes out of his way consistently and genuinely to do tasks or go on events he normally would not go to, just to make you happy. He is definitely gearing to pop up the marriage question. Do not get me wrong, I do not mean those escortoryors professional escorts on the prowl who pretend of please you. This serious marriage minded guy does not complain about it. He does not care how he is going to look before his friends. Watch out for his body language when he is accompanying you, is he comfortable? He might not be excited, but is he there mind, body and soul? Is he genuinely interested in knowing more about you love?

5. He entrusts you with his life

Ladies, this is not to say if your guy is not telling you things, he is not ready to get married. One thing you have to understand is that trust is earned. A guy who wants to get married to you will eventually open up to you, when he realized you are genuinely concerned about his welfare. We call it wife material. When a guy realized his wife material he starts asking for your view on everything want to undertake. He opens his innermost thoughts, fears and deep feelings. He practically shares his life with you. That does not means he is ready for marriage if he is not doing all this now. It is gradual process. Give him time and give him that motherly love and care without judging him.  

6. He helps you feel comfortable

A guy, who is ready to get married to a woman, genuinely wants her to make progress. Guys want their woman to rep them in a good way, so they want to help to woman become comfortable and better. He always wants tom know about your career, business, hobby, likes, dislikes or craft. Does he proffer solutions to challenges that seem to weigh you down? Now I do not mean being possessive, judgmental and demeaning. Traits of jealousy and competition are not seen.

7. He is punctual

If your man is always on time, he is definitely into you. When a man is in a serious relationship, he will make sure that his woman does not have to wait for him. He will let you know if he is running late and he would not ever leave you hanging

8. He says it

If your man asks you how you want your dream wedding to be, your preferred wedding colors, traditional marriage (indoor or outdoor) ring sixe or likes to raise some important aspect of the wedding he is particular about, then he is definitely making plans to settle down with you.

9. He plans with you in mind  

Men are naturally wired to know the details and intricacies of every project they want to get involved in sure project. A wedding is like a project to a man and factors such as accommodation, career development, finances and so on, are strongly deliberated. The interesting thing about this is that he plans all this with you in mind. He is genuinely concerned about how these seemingly minute details will affect your life.

10. Family link

If your man wants you to meet his family members, be around him at family events, meet his siblings and people he loves, he really wants to settle down with you. He has seen you as a member of his family.

11. He wants to live together

When a man wants to share his space voluntarily and not only as a way to save money, is he thinking toward the future. This can also happen if he suggests opening a bank account together or getting a pet. Moving in together is one of the clearest signs he want to marry you.

12. He does not run away during the trying period

There will be challenging points in relationships and they can get more difficult with time. During these times, if your man stays by your side and does not run away, this is a good sign that he will want to marry you.

13. He misses you   

You will feel like nothing can get in the way when your man has made the decision to make time to see you. When he makes promises about plans he will follow through and this is a great sign. On the flip side, if he is always calling to break plans, this means you are not at the forefront of his mind. Someone who does this is not feeling committed and devoted at all.  

14. He only sees you

When your man has a wandering eye that will make you feel jealous or uncomfortable. Your man will be focused on you even in a crowded public places.

15. When he ask you about the names or number of kids you wish to have

When your guy jokingly asks about the names of your kids or the number of kid you want to have, he is actually considering the motherly side of the women he wants to spend his life with. You have to understand that it takes commitment to raise kids and for a guy to talk or joke about them often, he seriously means to spend his life with you.

This is where we end it up. Let hear and know your thoughts in the comment section. 

 

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